Today on My Class

Today on My Class
by Andrew Kawilarang ( June, 28, 2007 )

Hi see u again, this evening I spend my time to joined class that speaks about A Happy Life in Family and Works at World Trade Center Surabaya-Indonesia. The keynote Speaker Fr Simon Pereira C.Ss.R. The first Question is What's your purposes to get married and build your own family? The answer is various, eg : to get happiness life, to have children, to find good patner, but someone says the marriage is a way to sadness, pain, destruction, and hell. why?? because husband have a list of ransom to his wife and so on the wife, so theiy don't reach their happiness because they are selfish each other.

The key to marriage is have a happy life, Peace, and Prosperity. The Leader is a process to influence the way of thinking and behaviour of the man to reach a goal.
4 base of Leadership :
1. Heart ( Mat 6:45 )
When influence others, motivated they about what's stored on your heart ( for his own good )
2. Heads
Have a clear vision about future and planning about family
3. Hands
People would aggree and understand about our motivation and vision with our works
4. Habits
Avoids energy loss because our routine lifes with growing up our habits to spirituality to recharge our energy and lifes.

Leadership Principal :
1. Loves
2. Respect
3. Honesty and Rule
4. Loyalty
5. Forgive

That's I learned today. would you agree? That is your choice to chosen, it is free to you. But I want to share what I got today to you. Maybe the keynote speaker is right about life in marriage often looks like hell, but the other side is bring hapiness to people who can manage the difference to his couple. But I can't speaks more because I'm single and don't have experience of marriage. Do you have story and comment about this topics? Do not hesitate to email me at thema692001@gmail.com Thank You to read my posting